Mystery Girl's Diaries

 O kay first of all I am not a feminist. This is because I am a woman too and I can relate to the situations women around me go through and situations they have been facing.   should I mention everything in points?! before all else, there is no gender equality here, in India, since I don't know about other countries. people don't  actually most of the people don't respect women and their opinions as a woman I don't think if I can say this earth is a safe place for girls  she has to protect herself of course, she doesn't have to have freedom coz she is a woman. andd she should get married to some unknown as elders say, if she objects then they tag you with different titles again you should not object coz you are a women     I don't know if this sounds rude but a woman has to live without self-respect in a typical Indian family.   now let me tell you what girls around me have gone through, from my family to neighbors.   I did saw so many situations ...

 

somewhere I read that right and wrong are right or wrong in your head as per your assumption.it also said that there is no right or wrong for anything. and now I was reading Social Psychology by David Mayers (the book which is interesting as hell and which I rarely read). so the topic was judgment... psychologically we tend to perceive things, through involuntary or unconscious judgment and others are conscious or controlled judgment. whatever the type of judgment it is, it completely depends  on our social influence, the environment we grew up in and the kind of brains we are surrounded with. it was explained with a great example like how we tend to think about everything after watching a horror movie. sometimes even the things we know sound new to us (at least for me, this time). we judge some things quickly without even thinking which is neither wrong nor right too. which mostly comes from influence or unconsciously. we should try to see things from different perspectives which ...

  umm...just finished my 3rd-year final exams...you know what I hope and wish. at this point, I feel like I am kinda getting old. I mean I am going to be in my fourth year OMG... years are passing like days, also there were days which I did pass like years... but imagine If I was in any UG course, I would have been in my final year.... all my friends who are BTech will get settled in their careers by the time I get graduated. it doesn't mean I have no career but a kind of FOMO. well, I still question myself so many things, and it's okay. and another thing.... actually I have very few people who are close to me and who consider and give value to my opinion. regardless of the closeness we share, I found so many people don't know why, they share their stories with me like opinions, problems maybe their pain sometimes. hmm..okay, I feel great that they consider me as a person who understands them and I am happy to hear them too......but there was a point I used to overthink the...

 isn't it weird... how unwanted things make us know what we want or what's right. like... how the irresponsibility of others makes us know the value of responsibility. how the pain someone gave us makes us not hurt anyone. how wrong choices make us know what is right for us. how some people who annoy us make us know how not to be annoying. like a person who is bad at everything can be an example to be good to someone. I mean at least not to be like him/her.  how valueless things show the value of being valuable. it's not like I learnt from everything. was just wondering how things make us feel sometimes. #justFeltLikeWriting