RIGHT AND WORNG

somewhere I read that right and wrong are right or wrong in your head as per your assumption.it also said that there is no right or wrong for anything.

and now I was reading Social Psychology by David Mayers (the book which is interesting as hell and which I rarely read).

so the topic was judgment... psychologically we tend to perceive things, through involuntary or unconscious judgment and others are conscious or controlled judgment.

whatever the type of judgment it is, it completely depends on our social influence, the environment we grew up in and the kind of brains we are surrounded with. it was explained with a great example like how we tend to think about everything after watching a horror movie.

sometimes even the things we know sound new to us (at least for me, this time).

we judge some things quickly without even thinking which is neither wrong nor right too. which mostly comes from influence or unconsciously. we should try to see things from different perspectives which controlled judgement.

of course, there are times when I used to judge wrong completely which is influential judgement may be, the good thing that I learned, is to accept when I am wrong maybe learning to think differently thanks to books and books.

I wish each and every parent to make their child learn what is good or bad and let them learn in different ways just give them a broad perspective coz, not every kid is going to experience everything in life to learn judging through experience, I think it is the responsibility of parents to make them learn to judge fairly about anything and everything. don't make them learn to hate a person who is different from them, let them know not every person is the same and we are not right everytime let them know how to accept that kind of situation. sometimes I feel like adopting a kid and making him learn every good thing on this planet(maybe someday)(mostly because of this gen. kids and parents).

These kinds of thoughts come to me after watching soo many kinds of brains and how they think, some times I just wish I hated them but how can I? after learning these many things at this point I just pity them for how narrow-minded or how small they think and it is not even about narrow or board mind but how they perceive things and how they are influenced.

umm and its really interesting to know people's brains, just grateful for every kind of brain for making me learn, which are useful in this way and just pray that someday I really study a master's or do some job-related psychology.

                                                                                                                                 - Mystery girl