Mystery Girl's Diaries

 I don't know from where and how people get that audacity to simply deny the fact and not hold accountability for their actions when questioned on their face. when you clearly saw what they were doing behind your back. #AndCallingYouAFRIEND. COWARDS!!  #SimplyDisgustedByBehaviourOfFewPeople                                                                                                                             -Mystery girl

I just realized something while watching a documentary It was about anxiety disorders- it was like a moment of realization..it goes on like --your anxiety or hate comes from your past experiences- if you as human spending your early years seeing a loved one physically abused by somebody else being brought up as a refugee with shelling all around you- your brain has been taught to have a lifetime vigilance-- it's not the exact same thing with me or me totally hating love... I don't like the idea of me being in a relationship or loved or as I said earlier I am scared. relating to the above, mentioned thing I didn't see anyone being abused but I didn't see anyone being happy in love either... I saw people were struggling in love, compromising, adjusting, blaming each other...it was miserable watching them like that... maybe not maybe, definitely that influence a part of me. it's not blaming them...we as humans learn a lot from our surroundings mostly when we are kids.....

somewhere I read that right and wrong are right or wrong in your head as per your assumption.it also said that there is no right or wrong for anything. and now I was reading Social Psychology by David Mayers (the book which is interesting as hell and which I rarely read). so the topic was judgment... psychologically we tend to perceive things, through involuntary or unconscious judgment and others are conscious or controlled judgment. whatever the type of judgment it is, it completely depends  on our social influence, the environment we grew up in and the kind of brains we are surrounded with. it was explained with a great example like how we tend to think about everything after watching a horror movie. sometimes even the things we know sound new to us (at least for me, this time). we judge some things quickly without even thinking which is neither wrong nor right too. which mostly comes from influence or unconsciously. we should try to see things from different perspectives which ...

This is a thing from current book that I am reading which is just awesome...... I mean who doesn't wants to know about themselves...this book is more than that. here comes some interesting thing.  SELF-CONCEPT: WHO AM I? ourselves and what determines our self-concept. self-concept :What we know and believe about ourselves. You have many ways to complete the sentence “I am _____.” (What five answers might you give?) Your answers provide a glimpse of your self-concept. ummm i found it interesting...so i was exited to answer.. thought why not in my blog let's doo this... i don't think much about me but still.. 1. i am a mystery girl😜(OMG then nothing will be mystery ) okay now serious 2. i am a believer. 3. i am a dreamer. 4. i wish i could say i am a strong woman. 5. some day i am going to be ' I am a doctor '... wait not some day... after 3 years. 6. I am a person with strong opinions. umm what sayy... still I sound mystery right?😂😂... i really mean the first one....

 social psychology-this is a book that i am currenty reading (i love psychology), it's an interesting one...ther are soo mannyy quotes in the book and i am absolutely loving that.   “We cannot be distinguished from our situations, for they form us and decide our possibilities” . One problem with common sense is that we invoke it after we know the facts  Events are far more “obvious” and predictable in hindsight than beforehand.    “It is easy to be wise after the event.” —Sherlock Holmes,