Skip to main content

YOU WILL FIGURE IT OUT

 we all figure it out in the end..isn't it?

we face things we never thought we would, but we do survive,

we thought we can't live without that people, but we do live,

we face, we fight, we accept and we move on in the end, isn't it the process of living, isn't it the way we survive our everyday lives?.

when they said  "change is the only constant" this is what they meant.

change is the only way to live, we have to change and adapt ourselves according to the situations and when we can't things like depression, anxiety, and stress happen, coz we live in a human body with a brain that has so many emotions in it-that little part cannot handle the things the way we want, it takes time, we have to make that time easy for it to understand and move on.

and in the end not matter who and how much they love you or promised you...YOU WILL BE LEFT ALONE.

and maybe more than anyone, during that time you will need yourself more than anyone.

don't let yourself fool you or people fool you, all they can do is talk, and more or less they try harder to understand you...but only you can feel the things that you are going through and only you can understand the pain that you felt but its good to have someone to warn you when you are trapped in your useless thoughts sometimes, just don't get depended on people emotionally...i don't know why I ended up writing this maybe that's what I needed to hear these days...DONT GET DEPENDED ON PEOPLE EMOTIONALLY..now the scary part is called attachment, coz in the end people leave. period!

I hope I figure it out, I figure out a way to live the way I want, I figure out a way not to depend on people, I hope I figure out not to expect things from people, I hope to figure out a way to live a peaceful life.

I wish people who are like me scared to trust and believe in people, and all the battles they face alone, will figure it out and live a happy life.


                                                                                                                                      -Mystery girl

Labels:

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Love is..??

Hmm... Love is??! Maybe love is missing someone, no matter how busy you are. Maybe love is liking the things that person used to like. Maybe love is an endless hope. Maybe love is that smile we get when we think of them. Maybe love is the pain we are aware of but still keep chasing. Maybe love is going back to the same person again and again. Maybe love is longing for someone, even when you know they won't be yours. Maybe love is finding comfort in their memories, even when they're not around. Maybe love is realizing that, no matter how far apart, they are always close to your heart. Maybe love is both joyful and painful, hopeful yet uncertain. Maybe love is confusion and clarity at the same time. Maybe love is...(you finish it!)                                                                  ...
5 comments
Read more

I was unlucky...

Yes... yes... I'm still alive. I don't know why, but I always start my posts with "I don't know"... maybe it reflects how confused I am. Hmm... moving on to my life. As you can see, I'm hardly able to write, and now I'm at a point where I can clearly see that both my love life and professional life are messed up. I chose the wrong path, even after all these days of thinking and choosing with so much consideration. And now, I don't know how to get out of either situation. I've committed to a job role for a year that isn't related to my core subjects at all, and I've given my heart to someone who can never love me the way I want. Both of these are hurting me. These days, I'm just stuck in a loop of thoughts, or else I'm crying. I take things seriously... seriously to the heart and head. I don't know how to live with all this mess in my mind. I'm just happy that I have this blog, which is like my sanctuary. I know no one reads ...
6 comments
Read more

so far 2025 is...

So far, 2025 has been hard, maybe the hardest. Every past year was tough, but this one feels like it's draining the life out of me. I left my job with hope, and it hasn't even been three months, yet I already feel like a loser. I mean, sometimes I even feel  underconfident because it's been almost a year since I graduated, and then... These months feel like three different lifetimes. I went on a trip in January, which was cool...because it was Kanyakumari. And then, again... I lost my uncle...Something I never, ever expected to happen. And now, I'm going through a tough time in my relationship. I mean, why do I have to go through all of this? It's not like I'm sitting idle. I'm taking on-call shifts at a nearby hospital, thinking about a startup, and applying to hundreds of jobs. But still, I feel like a failure.  I know, I know...I’m not a failure. I’m much better than this. But every single year, life keeps testing my patience and tolerance. At times, I’ve...
8 comments
Read more