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IT IS WHAT IT IS

Yeah, what I meant to say is it is what it is accept it the way it is and just move on.

No matter how much you try, no matter how much you want some things are just not meant for us ..people need to realize accept and move on.

No matter how much you fantasize about it in your head, some things are just not meant for us.

Some people never change.

Some people never want you no matter how hard your efforts are.

No matter how much you try to fit in, some places are not meant for you.

On the other hand, some things happen just effortlessly, you don't have to force yourself.

You don't have to overexplain yourself, some people just get you.

Some places are just meant for you, where everything just feels right.

What I say is, whatever the situation may be, there is a time where people have to realize things and just accept the things the way they are.

There are people who succeed after years of trying, which is really great, but there are also people who give up and find their thing after all those years.

There are people who hang on in a toxic relationship or one-sided relationship for years but there is a time to give up and find the people who are meant for you.

We are here to live this tiny life for a very short period but some people take years to realize, of course, nothing goes in vain, it will be an experience to them and a lesson to at least someone around them.

But yeah holding gurges or one-sided efforts for a long time is not that worth it to spend your time on.

There will be a few moments where you have to think IT IS WHAT IT IS and ACCEPT THAT "AS IT IS".

and yeahh great things will be waiting for you ahead, don't let your stupid mind fool you to force yourself to think that you are bounded to those toxic things, there is soo much positivity out there in the world.


                                                                                                                                         -Mystery girl




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