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Love at first sight

I thought I have written on this topic...

Well, This post is for that consistent follower!

I don't know if I am eligible to talk about "love", but I am definitely eager to find out how it feels...

Before getting into the point...

Love at first sight not only happens between humans...the way we select our clothes or something is love at first sight isn't it...all the things we like first are the choices based on that first sight.

Okay let me tell you this....one of my faculty who used to teach us statistics always used to say that...in statistics, there is no wrong answer...you can get any result and it will be right but the correctness or accuracy depends on the error and range of error...

Why I am telling this is bcoz....yeah! You can fall in love at first sight but it depends on the consequences that happen next...

You "CAN" fall in love at first sight but there is no guarantee how it turns out...it can work out or not. It can be attraction or love or just poor judgment of a person because you are blinded by their charm or appearance or attractiveness. It will be great if things work out and it's okay even if not...

But I don't think labeling it love at first sight seems correct..at first sight, you might only get attracted or impressed..love takes so many things to happen..loving a person irrespective of their appearance or attractiveness takes time and commitment...lucky are those who fell in love at or after first sight and for whom things just work out.

let me mention this....love... I mean genuine love happens rarely in this era...in those eras of rare communication, where a lot of communication happened through eye contact or poetry..this love, at first sight, might have worked.

nowadays people are only desperate to fall in love for their sexual needs or to show off or because of their surrounding people or because of all those series or movies...

In between all those things...love happens rarely...

people who love you, who stick by you..people who live with your memories in your absence, people who are loyal, and honest are rare..at least that's what I think and if I am not wrong that's why I am single still now.

okay now let me argue on the positive side...

If we talk about the vibes here...it might be worth giving a try..coz why not?!.. I mean we meet or interact with so many people in a day...but get that vibe from a single person that's definitely something special... if love, at first sight, is not only about looks, then it deserves some investment... if we consider love at first sight =  vibe...then not only first sight but every kind of love is love at first sight...most of the time love begins with that...some people find it later or not at all or just suppress that feeling.

Okay, for one last time let me tell you this...love is not something that happens coz you are desperate or just because you are attracted to someone...it just has to happen naturally, not because you wish for it... it will happen unexpectedly with a most unexpected person without your interest just don't force yourself just because you are single or all your friends are taken... it will happen someday... definitely.

I don't know if I have fulfilled what you have asked about...I am just a layman to talk about love.

To all those who found their love..cheers!! and I may little bit jealous of you all...

and to all those who are hopeless romantics and still didn't get experience love..well fighting bro..hopefully...we might find our soulmates one day.

We all know great things take time!...and in that very moment, it doesn't matter if it's love at first sight or vibe...you will have the whole clarity about what that person means to you and only then label it love...don't get into conclusions in the beginning and realize later..let things happen first and then call it something.



                                                                                                                                   -Mystery girl                                     



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  1. Rapid PhysicaAugust 16, 2022 at 12:07 PM

    Whoever reads your views on LOVE would definitely fall in love with you. I feel good that you have considered the request. You have nicely elaborated the love. I haven't expected that much detailing. Your thoughts have great power.

    I am waiting for the someone who feels the same about love. But "Great things take time". I Hope I would meet her in near future.

    Have a good Day !

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    1. Mystery Girl's DiariesAugust 19, 2022 at 11:48 PM

      I wish that you find the LOVE you want someday 🤗

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