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People come and go

 Yup...

That's how life is...I didn't lose connection with anyone "Important".

But..yeah! I met so many temporary people...not being in touch with people doesn't mean losing them...

You know just life goes on, you get busy as you grow old and in that process, we lose contact with people, and there the actual struggle begins.

There will be people who will be understanding and they make it look like it's common and there come other kinds of people who just make it look like it's all your fault and it's okay it's better to leave them there and don't let that kind of people drain your energy.

It might sound a little bit hard and rash but yeah that's how living works... slots only for understanding ones.

I was wondering how many people I have met all these years of my life...I had and have met soo many people, like from my childhood I can remember that they existed in my life but I am not able to recall their faces but yeah I remember them... I used to have a batch in my colony...they are all grown-ups now...I mean we have all grown-ups now. we have moved apart....but yeah I miss them and those days..aahhh it's just making my heart heavy but also reminding me that I had a great childhood and of course, my hostel stay made me meet so many people... I am just visible to my own roommates and I love all of them with whom I stayed...after college hours I just want to be left alone, I don't like too much talking and gossiping kinds of things even then people used to recognize me, my name, my room and all, I have this memory issue of forgetting people's names, I can't recall at all sometimes, people just gave up on me at this point.

It was great to meet all these people, I forgot to mention I even meet people on trains...

If I have to write in my pharmacy language...all these people are like different kinds of additives to an active ingredient of my soul they just enhanced my life in different aspects..not only for me but for all of you guys would have met so many people...some are blessings some are lessons...some just pass by for a very short period of time in our lives, everyone matters.

Sometimes we just become too dependent or too attached to people which might hurt us, maybe it is also a part of a lesson to learn something in life.

In the end, all I say is nothing is permanent, everything comes at a cost and some things are worth struggling for, and yeah! it's always great to meet new people.


                                                                                                                                          -Mystery girl

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  1. It's always great to meet new people. Oh, I have the same opinion. I never would have imagined talking to someone I have never met/seen and probably won't in the future. But I feel good to read and talk to mysterious girl. May be for someone I would become Mysterious Boy :)

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