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LOVE vs TRUST

Okay, it came from a discussion with one of my friends.

They say where there is love there is trust and vice-versa.

What I said was you don't need to love every person you trust, you can trust someone even if you don't love them.

There needs to be...there must be trust between two people in any kind of relationship.

Maybe there is no love without trust.

OMG?! wait? what!...my mind was different when I started writing this, am I convinced that you need to love the person to trust.

NO, you can trust the person without loving, just like we trust banks, we don't love them, isn't it??! ...we trust doctors right?? there will be some relations we just trust them without love.

Since I titled it love vs trust...

Love or trust? what is more important?, well I say in any relationship trust is more important, there is no value or point in having love without trust in some relations.

It's not love or trust it should be love and trust in relationships... I mean emotional and attachment kind of relationships.


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  1. Rapid PhysicaAugust 8, 2022 at 10:58 PM

    I do believe, there must be trust in any type of relationships. Some times we hide something to maintain relationships but it ultimately breaks the trust. But we all have been using the same methods to maintain relationships.

    I believe that the Trust comes first and the Love comes afterwards, but that depends upon the relationship.

    But what about Love at first sight ? Whether its only related to physical appearance? I wish to here from you.

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