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POSSESSIVENESS

Isn't it one of the most annoying things in a human?

Well, I find it very irritating.

what does possessiveness mean to you?

Of course, everyone has a different view...some may feel it or take it in a positive way.

I didn't find it better in any way, I mean how much possessiveness is too much and how much is minimum, even minimum sounds annoying too.

I saw possessive parents, friends, and possessive "one" from a couple....whatever the relationship may be being possessive can be uncomfortable at some point.

The irony is the people who are possessive can be allowed to be with everyone and do the things they want but not the same with the person they are possessive about.

Isn't it like setting rules for a person you love to live a life as you want?

I hate anyone being possessive of me, I just maintain my distance from them...coz what does it mean to be only with them always and not with others...I mean we are living a life, we have to befriend people in our surrondings🤷‍♀️

Isn't possessiveness toxic in a relationship and when I say relationship I mean every kind of relationship?

possessiveness is setting a cage on the person you like or love...where does this possessiveness start from? isn't it because you trust-less? or because you love more?

I would never understand this thing but all I can say is to make the person understand that being possessive is not the way one should love, don't annoy anyone, and lose your relationship being possessive.
 
                                                                                    

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  1. Rapid PhysicaMay 28, 2022 at 12:00 AM

    You have picked out the weakest characteristic of living beings. Possessiveness is something we all have. This article has made me think about it a lot. I'll probably make a comment later.

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    1. Mystery Girl's DiariesMay 28, 2022 at 7:20 AM

      It feels soo nice to read your comments, coz an unknown person trying to understand what I am trying to say.., ahh, all I can say is THANK YOU for reading and sharing your thoughts. It means a lot.

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