VENTING

"Be careful who you vent with coz vents go in other rooms" this is the quote that I read somewhere.

and my thoughts went like...

We, humans, are emotional creatures we feel anger, sadness, loss, and all...people need people, and people need to vent with others... that's the way of surviving lives.

but the thing is people just don't leave it where they hear they carry it with them to the people they shouldn't.

leave behind that trust etc...as I said we humans are emotional sometimes irrespective of the person and situation we just vent everything, in that kind of a situation, we/you as a human need to do is just hear, that's it why just bad mouth anything about it.

and people just get creative and creative and turn the actual matter into something else for their convenience and at the cost of a person's emotion, reputation, and trust... what is that behavior called some give it a name people, it just disgusts me.

why people are so interested in bad-mouthing about others, can't we just live our lives just minding our own business.

and trust me I hateeee hearing the things that I said, from someone else, when I actually said it to some other person, that just freaks me out, I don't blame them, it's how toxic human relations are, it just makes me hate whole humans, except some.

as I said we are emotional creatures, when I hear things about me, sometimes I just laugh at them and leave them, sometimes things break me, sometimes they make me sad, sometimes they make me angry... sometimes they make me question myself "did I actually do that? is that how I am? am I that bad? and blah blah"

 There was a post that wrote years back about "judging others", it's almost similar to me, they both make me equally angry and the only constant thing is people never change, and even if people change there will be a new person waiting to judge and bitch behind our back... 

If we survived a pandemic era of a deadly virus with a vaccine and a mask, I guess we can survive a life happily with all the resistance we got through our past experiences and just minding what makes us happy.

I just wish people are aware of the person they are venting to or sharing to... coz you never know what runs behind your back, let me say when you are putting something out from your mouth just be ready to hear it from others or know that people know about the thing that you said.

and of course, the things you hear from others will be definitely interesting coz, even you will be surprised to hear what you did or said- in their versions😂.

As days are passing and I turning old, I guess the resistance thing is working for me.

                                                                                                                                     -Mystery girl