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WANT OR NEED?

24-JUL-2021

This is from drafts I don't even remember which book I was reading and what I was talking about... maybe it was while I was reading "the monk who sold his Ferrari".

 As I mentioned in the earlier post....the book I am reading has a lot to say about life and purpose...

I don't know if I am in a need to find my interest or if I want to find it but badly want to have clarity.

You can't even imagine how many times I question myself if having so many interests is wrong/bad? of course not...not being able to fulfill anything or do anything about them is bad..that hits and hurts differently.

Maybe I am living in a fear bubble, what if I live my entire life like this not being able to find and fulfill it. that will be useless and I don't want that and enough thinking I have to put some effort. I can't imagine how badly I am going to regret it if I do not do anything rn.

haha it's funny if I read the above thing now, coz I am still the same, still, I haven't done anything, and yeah I may regret but I'll make sure it doesn't affect me, coz I am happy that I am living a stress-free and living a better life than at least some people, let's not compare ourselves with others, at least I am better than I was 2 years back or one year back and I know I'll be different in next 6 months or  1 year, different in the sense change or as I said the evolution of me, my character, personality, mentally and emotionally.

Okay, let me talk about wants and needs...anyone can google it to find the difference but how do we choose between want and need.

When we are kids we don't care about anything, everything is wanted but as we grow old, especially in a middle-class family we have to choose only needs, it's not about things it can be the things you love or it can be feelings and people sometimes.

I saw few people who were passionate about their hobbies giving up on their needs and choosing their careers over their wants.

people choose to move one which is needed even though they want to wait for someone.

and moreover, adulting is all about the balance between choosing wants and need and most of the time choosing need over want, still being an adult people need to consider their wants sometimes coz only wants can give more self-satisfaction than needs most importantly if people want to take a break in their lives at some point they should take coz that's what their body and soul needs.

life is all about knowing what we want and need and choosing them accordingly and being happy with what we choose. let's just manifest that everyone finds their wants and needs.



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