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LETTING GO

This post is a draft from 2020... I wasn't sure of this, coz it was really hard for me to let go of anything from me and my life.

Finally, I am here writing this after two years.

 


 
 This quote carries a deep meaning or maybe I just feel it that way, I don't know if everyone feels that way after reading a quote or I just feel too much, I can't say it's too much, it's just how I feel.

Letting go doesn't necessarily happen in love or when you date someone, it can be guilt, regret, or betrayal from friends, family, or anyone you know.

yeah, I wasn't sure about letting go of anything from my life two years back, I was really a kid who knows nothing about reality, and someday life hit me with harsh reality and I learnt it a hard way to let go of something from my life.

For a person letting go is not only about humans, I get attached to things, places, and emotions more than humans. I was obsessed with my thoughts, feelings, and especially things, well I am still obsessed with a few things in my life.

For a person like me, it's also hard to let go of the past, I get flashbacks like hell and I cringe hard for even little things, you don't believe I scream "shut up and forget girl" sometimes it comes out my mouth too. people think that I had a serious breakup or something with the way I behave. it's not I didn't have a single breakup till now, who's gonna tell them, it's okay to let them enjoy their version of the story.

Soo coming back to the point, letting go, means freeing yourself from the thoughts and feelings that you have caged yourself in, it only gonna hurt you and it will hurt more and more as long as you hold back to let go.

It took me years to learn this and accept the things as they are and were, and yeah it's not as easy as it sounds to let go of something that meant a lot, but holding a grudge, hate, loss, or anything will only make you tired, at some point you hate yourself, and you will not able to appreciate thing.

It's not necessarily mean being normal with that person again or bringing back that person in your life, it just means that you are not letting that person affect your life and mind in any way.

Having or carrying a feeling which doesn't make you a better person and in turn hurts you then it's better to let go of it.

Trust me you're gonna feel better and feel a lot more like yourself, you find a person inside you who will be more happy and grateful for the life you have, it takes a lot of time but it's okay to take your time, realizing and accepting the things.

I just felt like it's our stupidity to get obsessed over temporary things, no matter what everything is temporary.

It took me a lot of time, I am not sure if I completely let it go, but I am trying and started to let go of a few things, and I am sure I am not that obsessed with my things (i used to be a kind of person that I used to cry over things- I mean non-living things) and I can say that whatever is gonna happen in future I am not going to hold it and get over-attached to it.

What I say is let it go and live happily, at least try to let go and try to live a happy life, life is shorter than you imagine and yes, I am trying to be a more happy and better person.


                                                         
                                                                                                                                      -Mystery girl





 


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