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GO WITH THE FLOW

Today is Maha Shivratri here, that rare day of the year where I woke up almost early and visit a temple, you know, I recently said I realized the importance of celebrating things, it may not be a celebration today, but a kind of special day....coz I believe in spirituality and today's night is powerful as they say...so I wish a healthy and happy life to all the people around me.


So yesterday, after having a conversation with a person, I was thinking that...

Yeah! life doesn't happen the way we planned or expected sometimes maybe most of the time I guess.

Things turn out better than we expected or worse sometimes or something unexpected happens in between.

Umm...thinking all this made me realize that it is never the same for us... I mean "US" humans...everyone has to go through every kind of unexpected thing.

even when we have 100 expectations or thoughts there will be always that 101st possibility.

Isn't it amazing thinking that there is always a new way and possibility out of all you think, life is really unpredictable!

I always used to think that things never go as I planned, basically, I am not a plans person but still, I used to feel like things never go in my way/ as I expected...but trust me what we went through has a  purpose, at last, it may have not any good to you but it definitely benefits/benefited someone or made them happy at least, which you may have not noticed. if you know the butterfly effect, you can understand the quote that everything we do and every person has a reason and purpose to live on this earth.

I do believe in miracles and that belief started when I started expecting less and thinking less, it is not necessary to know every detail of everything that happens, some things are just better knowing less, and let's call them positive energy or blessings or miracles.

I am so much into miracles and mysteries these days, there is a post in drafts that I should post...soon.

The most unexpected thing that affected me was my choice of choosing pharm-d, It was really a destiny (coz this is the city, where I started my kindergarten, indirectly my education started here) or a miracle maybe, choosing this college and course was totally totally unexpected thing, I didn't even know that this course existed before, however, I learned so many things that wanted to write and this blog happened and yeah whatever I am now is maybe bcoz of those things that happened which I have never expected. this is when this GO WITH THE FLOW comes, coz we can't change anything looking back. just enjoy and try to LIVE the moments, start appreciating those little things in life.

If you want to experience the proper unexpected things and what it takes to face them hospital is the best place.

ACCEPTING what we are going through is the only way to live happily according to me.

Writing about unexpected things reminded me of "accidents"  road accidents- I saw so many accidents this month on the way to college and at the hospital... I hope everyone drives safe and wish everyone is lucky enough to save themselves from accidents.

DRIVE SAFE AND WEAR HELMETS AND SEAT BELTS WHILE DRIVING OR TRAVELLING IN VEHICLES

 think positive, be grateful and be happy.


                                                                                                                             -Mystery girl


 


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