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Enjoying being you

 What does it mean to be "be you", actually I wrote a post called "be you" already right?!

hmm... I'll still say the same thing that we become someone else in the process of living life, but what it is actually being ourselves is like, do we actually know ourselves?.

I don't know if I am passing a statement or defining it correctly, but according to me, being ourselves is being comfortable about what we are and accepting ourselves the way we are...

being ourselves is not what we are in the present,...I mean you'll be only comfortable when we accept our past selves and things we went through. 

what I learned is you cannot be comfortable and you cannot be yourself if you cannot accept, what you were in the past and what you went through in the past, and of course, you have to let go, which is not at all easy. 

I have this bad habit of not reading my posts after once I write them, maybe coz I am scared that I might cry, I just don't want to remind myself of everything I went through again, but as I say in every post I am learning and I am trying to become a better person, thanks to social media, so many post, and people influence us in a good way.

so, what I say is face the reality, face whatever that is bothering you, or just let it go, you can't be yourself when your head is stuck somewhere else.

being you is all about enjoying the little things we do, our imperfections, and of course a little appreciation for what we are (once in a while). 

This low self-esteem, low self-confidence is also may be one of the reasons for not able to enjoy being ourselves coz we constantly self-doubt ourselves, believing in the compliments that people around you give for little things you do is necessary, at least that's what I started doing, I had maybe I still have this quality of underestimating myself a lot, what I realized is it's okay to accept those appreciations, it's okay to believe in people once in a while, it helps a lot and it definitely makes a difference and lastly VALUE YOURSELF, YOU DEFINITELY MATTER AND YOU ARE SO MUCH BETTER THAN OTHERS.

                                                                                                                              

                                                                                                                                     - Mystery girl                                                                   

              


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