Marriage

I am not in a place to talk about marriage yet…

But let me share this conversation I had with my friend recently, which I have mentioned earlier in my post.

She was a conservative, typical, religious person—she was unable to accept the concept of having an open relationship, I mean, like a kind of live-in relationship.

She was judging and making a general statement about relationships, saying that people get into a relationship for time-pass and benefits.

It's okay, I agree with that to some extent...some people do get into relationships for a purpose, but it’s not like that with everyone.
Of course, having a relationship and getting to know the person before marriage is necessary, and people should/must know, because you can’t trust anyone blindly. There’s a page on Instagram called Dath’s Vault; he writes and shares real-life stories. Most of the people who share their stories are those who have been in relationships or marriages. Many women share that they were sexually tortured by their husbands after marriage. Women often end up in situations where they can’t even share what happens after marriage with their family or friends. You could say they get trapped in this trap called marriage.

And of course, it’s the duty of our society to judge them if they get divorced. After hearing these kinds of stories, I don’t mind if two people are in a relationship without marriage. If two people really want to stay together for the rest of their lives, I don’t think marriage is a must.

As I said, especially before marriage, people should know each other, and it’s okay to separate if it does not work out. I see so many people around me who are not in happy marriages, yet they still suggest getting married 🤷🏻‍♀️. People should get into relationships to truly know each other. That’s what I think. And how can anyone risk their whole life trusting a stranger blindly?!

Please don’t judge anyone too quickly, even if they are wrong, unless you know everything about that person and still want them in your life. If not, it’s their life and their choices. Not everyone has to be like you or the same as you.

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