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I am not in a place to talk about marriage yet...

But let me share this conversation I had with my friend recently, which I have mentioned earlier in my post.

She was a conservative, typical, religious person- she was unable to take the concept of having an open relationship, I mean like kinda live-in relations.

She was judging and giving a general statement about - relationships and she was saying that people get into a relationship for time-pass and benefits.

It's okay I agree with that, to some extent, where people get into relationships for a purpose but it's not like that with everyone. 
and of course, having a relationship and knowing about the person before marriage is necessary and people should/must know.
coz you can't trust anyone blindly... there is a page on insta called dath's vault, he writes and shares real-life stories, most of the people who share their stories are people who were in relationships and marriage, most of the women get sexually tortured by their husbands after marriage, women get into a place where they can't even share what happens after marriage with their family or friends, maybe I can they get trapped in this called marriage.
 
And of course, it's the duty of our society to judge them if they get divorced, after hearing this kind of story, I don't mind if two people are in a relationship without marriage, if two people really want to stay together for the rest of their life's I don't think marriage is a must, and as I said especially before marriage people should know each other and it's okay to get separated if it does not work out...coz I see so many people around me who are not in happy marriages, still, they suggest to get married 🤷🏻‍♀️.... people should get into relationships to know each other. That's what I think. And how can anyone risk their whole life trusting an unknown blindly?!.

and please don't judge anyone about anything that quickly, even if they are wrong, unless you know everything about that person and if you still want them in your life. if not, it's their life and their choices. Not everyone has to be like you...I mean same.




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