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BE YOU

 Some things sound as simple as that...but mean so much to people who need to hear those.

even already-read quotes make so much sense when you are in need to hear that. 

okay! keeping all that aside, coming to the point... BE YOU!! coz recently I was thinking,

We, humans, are always in rush there is no break in between with so many problems and works to do.

BEING YOU is not a single thing, it's the things we do, mistakes we do, things we talk about, the energy we carry, the way you communicate everything comes under being you.

In all that rush of living a running life, we often lose and forget our originality somewhere I saw so many people saying they were soo energetic and naughty in their college days but after marriage or getting the job they have been changed...seriously!? can I write it is as- you have no time to be yourself because you are so busy?!.

It's not the case with everyone and it's also okay to change and become a mature person...everything OKAY and correct, unless when you look back and regret the choices you make or hate the person you have become.

In the process of running along with life, we become someone else and we don't even like that person.. for example, the person who comes out when we are stressed or helpless, that is not us.

In the process of admiring someone, we want to become that but that's not us too, you can't be someone else, we belittle ourselves, but YOU are you and you are perfectly being you, we especially this generation should learn to love themselves more than pretend to love themself for the things they have or for outer beauty, we are more than what we appear, we have to identify ourselves.

we have to "evolve" not "change" ourselves, we have to make things in the right way.

To become a better YOU doesn't necessarily mean being perfect or not making mistakes, learning from our mistakes, and accepting our flaws can help a lot to be a better you too.

I used to love sketching and painting and now I don't even have time to do that, even if I have I chose other things, as I always say I am trying to be a better person and I am learning me every day, I am still trying to paint and sketch whenever I can. 

In this era of 9-6 jobs, people have become busy and of course, most of the blaming point goes to mobiles and social media.

Writing this post reminded me of a quote.

 don't let the inner child in you die- always be curious about the new things.

don't become someone else in the process of earning or wanting something-BE YOU always and appreciate yourself.

                                                                                                                       - mystery girl



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