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It's not okay to blame yourself

Yeah... it's not okay to blame yourself everytime...we are humans,we make mistakes, it's okay to blame situations and people sometimes, don't blame yourself especially when it's not your mistake... overdoing of anything causes harm for everything...as my life motto or philosophy or whatever it is called, everything has it's limits.

Blaming your self is okay until you are ready to take responsibility and to face consequences wether it's your action or mistake or others that made you blame yourself or question yourself and it's equally okay to not blame yourself if you are not ready, unless you don't regret and feel guilt.

And it's okay we humans need time to understand things coz we are in built with emotions...we take time to understand things and it's never too late to admit anything than regretting. 

I feel life is like a one way road... there are no chances of taking u-turn or to move backwards..you have to move forward no matter what and what ever the direction is... nothing is going to stay.

And today note to myself is: which I already know and say myself a lot of times...don't get attached to annnyyy thing.. specially a person like me...i really get attached to things and places a lot and it's not good for our health..i really take somethings too personally...and as i mentioned my new year resolution is to be happy and no overthinking.so, just be ready to leave anything behind at any time.PEROIDT.


                                                   - Mystery girl
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