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why we hate things that we hate.

I just realized something while watching a documentary It was about anxiety disorders- it was like a moment of realization..it goes on like --your anxiety or hate comes from your past experiences- if you as human spending your early years seeing a loved one physically abused by somebody else being brought up as a refugee with shelling all around you- your brain has been taught to have a lifetime vigilance--

it's not the exact same thing with me or me totally hating love... I don't like the idea of me being in a relationship or loved or as I said earlier I am scared.

relating to the above, mentioned thing I didn't see anyone being abused but I didn't see anyone being happy in love either... I saw people were struggling in love, compromising, adjusting, blaming each other...it was miserable watching them like that... maybe not maybe, definitely that influence a part of me.

it's not blaming them...we as humans learn a lot from our surroundings mostly when we are kids...most things get imprinted in our heads...that's our fears start building in our memories and in severe cases, people get traumatized mentally. I should write a post on mental health these days and how most people, especially in India ignore mental health.

basically what I wanted to convey is our childhood is a sensitive phase, kids should be taught and explained about things in an understandable way...people should behave themself and accordingly in presence of kids. 

and Netflix has some amazing documentaries or maybe I am more interested in documentaries these days.

                   

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  1. Rapid PhysicaDecember 11, 2021 at 9:37 PM

    Its true that in India, people are not conscious about their mental health. That is because they even don't know how their mind is spoiled by their surroundings, news and unfortunately due to incorrect information. As India is a big country, its too difficult to educate them about mental health but using various indirect ways this is possible.
    I think a good writer and a speaker can do this very effectively.

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    1. Mystery Girl's DiariesDecember 19, 2021 at 12:43 AM

      Yeah... I doesn't have to be a writer or speaker..it can be people like you and me too...who can atleast understand about the importance of mental health and it's a world wide issue where people even developed countries facing this mental health issues....let's try to help people around us and thanks for sharing your thoughts! It means
      alot! Have a great day.

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