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Hospital stories #2


okayy these hospital stories are real-life stories/reality.

maybe I should call this a love story...

so he was an old man near to his sixties, his condition was new to us since we just started going to the hospital, he was fine on the first day of our visit...I mean he communicated well...he does some job in rtc and he has 2 children both graduated.

the thing is he lost his wife in recent times...not directly due to COVID-19 but due to COVID circumstances they have not treated her properly- she died a few months ago.

on the second day when we visited him no one was with him so he had a long conversation with us, maybe he needed that...we listened...he was showing all her photos and suddenly he started crying....maybe he loves her so much or maybe he is regretting something I can't actually define whatever he is missing his person now...he said that they did an intercaste marriage..in that era, those were obviously rare...they struggled together, they were happy together, only he knows how miserable he is feeling..he said that she was the only support he had. not only physically he is mentally struggling so much after her death...hope recovers soon and stays strong his kids need him.

a person's death can take a lot from people huh?!

meeting him made me think that maybe love still exists in this mean world, people who value people more than their life...hmmm interesting...



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  1. "a person's death can take a lot from people huh?!" connected with this line because im struggling through this from years and years. Im not the same person anymore and im sure i wont be..Each and every day i try to cope up with the past but in vain. All i learnt was we should not connect to the people/anything anymore..the only thing that is behind every hurt is connection. So, my dear! treat everything as temporary :)

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    1. Its maybe true but we as humans have to move forward in life, we have to accept things and should move on, we have to live in hope, maybe life has better plans in future, be a optimist, there comes a day where you will be so happy that you forget your past..as you said everything is temporary-pain too. #morepowertoyou

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