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The Compliments

No matter how stupid you are there will be some people who like something in you or they might want to be like you... that's where the compliments come from (which is a genuine compliment).


There are other kinds of people, who compliment you with some intention behind it, or for their work or you can say "use".


However, since I am also a human being, I do receive compliments, of course, what they say is criticism too😂 which sounds too formal, and then body shaming too..

So may compliment you for your hard work or the way you present your work...but Compliments that are given for being the person you are or about your personality are special at least for me I mostly remember those.

Since my memory has this weird ability to remember only some incidents and repeat them repeatedly in my head I remember a compliment that was given by one of my teachers in school may in my high school I guess or might be primary.

So what he said was " this girl thinks soo far like about the future which is more mature for her age" it was something like this.

So remembering that made me think why I was thinking way ahead of my age, why I was more aware of things where I had to be innocent to understand...I sometimes feel like my childhood ended too soon, even today I do the same, I think too much about everything and everyone which is not my business at all.

 Sometimes I just wish that life would be much easier and better if I was a dumb head, I just feel Like I  want to be that person who doesn't care or think about their family and future, they just enjoy their present and personal life..I wish I was that careless.

But I don't want to be careless, just want to be carefree. It's not as easy as people say- leave it or just stop thinking about it.

Still, I am trying my best to mind my own business. As I mentioned "SOMETIMES" I run through all these thoughts. It's not an everyday thing... whatever happened I am just happy that how I turned out to be the person now I am..and I love the girl sorry woman I am becoming 😬😌.


                                                    -Mystery girl


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