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It's Okay To Not Understand everyone

 It's been a while since I wrote some nonsense things that run in my head.

So what I am thinking is ....Not matter how hard you try, you can't change someone until they take it seriously and there is no use for you to stress out,let's just say it's an energy waste and time waste thing.

What I learnt from this kind of things is Its your stupidity to force or make someone to think like you, if the person really wants to listen you, there will be some change in their behaviour or the way he thinks if not just leave them. let them face the reality, who knows ,everything goes in their favour maybe will be wrong or else they will learn a great lesson it will be a great experience to them. Just don't try to manipulate them or force them. They are going to hurt badly if you do, they will doubt themselves and hate them selves.  This all doesn't mean don't care about anyone, It's your responsibility to warn them once or twice and the rest of thing is upto them just don't meddle in between their business.


I must say that I am liking the way I am thinking now, the way I am looking at things now. Definitely my perspective has been changed and changing too..All becoz of this blog, as I said .. somethings are like promise, they keep resonating in my mind..and I am a little proud of it 😉😅. 


(Anddd yayy one more day to go (yeah, I am a little exited bit it doesn't last long coz it's going to be like another normal day, I don't have friends who get exited more than me or people who give surprises or celebrate my day...I don't wanna feel bad now, I happy with what I have #OkayBye))

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