OUT GROW, grew apart....okay whatever it is called, it's all about growth in our lives.
I am not even twenty now, I can't talk too much about this, coz I feel I didn't even saw the world properly and there is a long way for growth, it is just a small beginning of my life.
what I want to say is ''OUT GROWING PEOPLE"...umm in my opinion it is just moving on, for yourself and your life (again it is not about love life). we lose people, I don't know about people but I lost few people. it is not losing but I wasn't able to stay in contact coz there will be different stages of life, everyone chose a different life style where we have to adapt to that environment and we can't look back. it doesn't mean I forgot them and I never forget people I met that easily.
what I feel is we human beings can't hold on to the same thing constantly, even if some do, it takes loads of effort and that is rare. it's, even more, harder when you don't get anything in return. I mean in this give and take world no one does anything without expecting in return.
In this race of life, we have to outgrow people, places, feelings. you change, your thought process changes, your perspective changes. I can't think exactly like I do now, may I hate someone whom I like now and I like someone whom I hate, our opinions change too.
so what I say is if someone is busy and contacts you rarely try to understand them don't put your ego in between. and I warn people to not get too attached to anyyything. only things that mean a lot to you can hurt you, value yourself, blame yourself, and love yourself coz you may not understand people but you can understand yourself.
sometimes I feel like if everyone on this earth tries to understand each other then there will be no misunderstandings right?!...these words like outgrowing, growing apart sound so negative to me, it's. just a part of growth. even after all this, someone tries to understand you and never forgets you, don't lose them, value them, keep them.
-Mystery girl
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