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OPINIONS

 I just saw a post on "opinions"... so, I thought why don't I write my "opinion" on "opinions".😂

 in my "opinion" opinions define 'you', the way you think, your vision, your experiences.

opinions are healthy until you keep them to yourself, the problem starts when they become public.

yeah, even if the people ask themself about your opinion, be careful and wise with your words coz you already know people 'judge' easily. even more when you are happy or in better poison than them, you will be in the spotlight.

I hate this opinion thing ....coz these days people are having no limits for their opinions, your opinions only matter as important as you are to them and as valid as your opinion is. 

if a person asks your opinion that doesn't mean they don't about that thing or maybe, your opinion not matters all the time, they just respect you and your opinion. 

opinions also depend on the opposite person's maturity, the way he understands.

don't be foolish, thinking that everyone who asks your opinion follows it...people like to hear the things they want to hear.

and don't be stupid to answer everything you wanted to tell when someone asks your opinion

in my case I used to be the person valuing other's opinions more, even I used to feel bad if I do anything against someone's opinion... I think opinions should be rationalized, it's nothing wrong to hear what you wanted but have the patience to hear the unexpected too.

whatever the reason in order to protect someone or something else, don't make yourself a villain kinda thing, I mean don't transfer negative vibes, there is a way for everything you do, just follow that.

end of the only your opinion matters in your life. don't give that power to someone else. (I'll try to write part 2 someday, I have a lot to write.)

    

                                                                                                                           

                                                                                                                          -MYSTERY GIRL


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    1. yeah..sometimes passing your opinion to others may cause harm to them in any other way like everything has three sides your opinion their opinion and the TRUTH. Everything we hear is an opinion not the fact and everything we see is a perspective not the TRUTH...!!

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