How did I didn't write a post on expectations?
Ask me who hurt me the most, obviously my expectations 🙂.
Yeah...I used to expect a lot for every little thing in my life and got hurt a lot. I still do but now I am aware of what if things do not happen according to my expectations.
The level of your expectations is directly proportional to the level of disappointment we are going to face (Not every time).
The only thing I want to say is, it is not wrong to expect, but be mentally prepared for whatever result you are going to face.
expectations are our own assumptions, imagination. you are responsible for your imagination, don't blame others, people may make us expect but we have to control ourselves and stop ourselves from getting hurt.
the same applies to others too, you are not responsible for other's expectations, it's their imagination. just believe, trust it as what it is.
if you are a person who expects someone to do something for your satisfaction or pleasure, think about them too.
like...these days parents expect their kids to more than what they are, it's okay up to an extent.. until the kid doesn't feel pressure or stress. this happens in every kind of relationship.
we humans are born hypocrites but no one accepts it, some change as they grow, some become hypocrites. we can't control everyone, but we can control ourselves.
finally what I say is limit your expectations.
-Mystery girl
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