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DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER

The mystery girl is a little busy girl now 😛. college, assignments, notes, journey, headache🤕.
okay okay...
don't judge a book by its cover... almost everyone knows it.. a famous idiom.
mmm...it played a major role in my life... but in a different way😂... most people use it in a way saying that don't underestimate anyone... but in my case, it was different...
whenever I have assumed people or believed that they are good..there was a completely different story/angle of those people contrary to my expectations. I mean every time I have faced the completely unexpected side of a story which I never had ever expect from them...OMG..some stories really blocked my mind..... I will share 2 stories from that many.. which I'll never forget.

so there was a friend of mine who acted like a great actor which took me a long time to accept the reality. it's nothing like she did wrong but she was my friend and hid something like that from me.....so what happened is there was a senior(male) of us from our college who was already in a relationship with the same girl from his class...there were some difference runnings between them...taking that as advantage my friend was hitting on that senior boy🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ and I also came to hear that whenever she used to go to home in the afternoon from college..she used to go to watch movies with him actually😑.....I call it cheap, I call it lame...I don't know what should I name her character...I have also observed her doing these kind of lame things after knowing that... It was really hard for me to digest that that face of hers...and there was another face...in which she appears innocent....... the thing is she likes me a lot as a friend, she helps me a lot and I appreciate it all but you know I am a complicated person, I can't accept some things that quickly and it is, even more, harder from your people. then I ignored her a lot.... I avoided her as hell.....still she used to text me, call me. how can I stop her, I am not that rude...... then I realized that it was her choice, that is her character, she is free to do whatever she likes. it's her life. then that mystery girl who talked about limits in the relationships woke up😂. yes, she will be never the same for me and I  can't forget all this. you know that line "apna kaam se mathlab".. yeah, for people like this only that is the solution. you may say that why didn't question her while she was my friend.....I wasn't able because she was a completely different person with me and she never shared even a little thing with me about these all. huh!!

There is another story ..should I write another post.🤔.... okay I can't discuss much on that topic...it was the most absurd, stupid, insane, and unexpected thing that ever happened...
so you know that I am in a new hostel right?.so there is this girl in my room who looks totally innocent, she is., actually. she was from a village, she doesn't know much, she said that she never saw a laptop, I understood her, she wanted something from the supermarket I went with her even when I was tired as hell after returning from college. I had a soft corner for her till the next day morning...it happened 2 days back i guess... so, I just woke up in the morning anndddd she was doing her pregnancy test... I was like whaaattttt...OOMMGG...what should I do now, was it really what I am watching......my mind was really blocked..maybe it's new for me, maybe I am not that updated...she was almost of my age or may be one year older than me...in that shock, I was getting ready to my college, then I asked that "is he your boyfriend" and "she said noo, noo he is my friend"...then I question her about that test..." she said chii it is not that"😑. I am a medical student..does anyone do a malaria test like that...that stupid girl..... this was really really a great lesson for me...I am never going to trust people in my life that easily ever is sayy.🥵😑😑😑
I feel really sorry for their parent, more power to their parents, hope this kind of stupid kids learn somethings in their lives. all i can say is DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S  COVER
do

                                                                                                                               -Mystery girl
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