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Being valued

 before this, I should say a hospital story-2

hmm.. it was causality ward.....there were these two old couples who may be in there 60's.....that old woman was infected with leprosy and there was no one to take care of those old people...that old man was the only person to look after her....it is an infectious disease and both were too old to look after everything...that old man doesn't even know how to go downstairs on his own(coz it was a big hospital).. the thing is they have children who are settled I don't know if they were well settled or not but there were some people who had a responsibility to look after them no!... maybe I would have cried on that day if I did listen to their story a little longer(it was an emotional story)... I mean they were from a village and he is a farmer....you can imagine how hard they would have tried to give their children a better life... I am not judging them but it clearly shows how much they value their parents(after listening to their story), how much they care about their parents............. at that moment I really imagined my parents for a second......... I know my parents are different, they are educated and we are there for them........ but seeing that old couple made me think a lot..... I can't stop thinking that absence of anyone from that couple.........what would they have been...

coming to BEING VALUED.......you are valued only when you value people or things.... see no matter what the most important things for humans are 1. yourself  2. parents then next any other.....

being valued starts from us(within).......we have to value ourselves before anyone does...what they say.... we have to set our standards don't let any other person do that😉..don't let anyone disrespect you or make you feel worthless...value yourself. value your opinions, choices. just move on from anything that makes you feel unworthy or people who don't value you and the relationship you have with them...  after yourself, parents.... it doesn't matter if you hate them but respect them for what they did for you, what they sacrificed for you, respect their expectations too at the end they only want a better life for us... everyone expects something in every kind of relationship we have...in this give and take the world...they are the only people who pray for you wholeheartedly, who celebrate your success wholeheartedly, who feel your happiness as theirs............please don't put them aside for your happiness or luxury life...your life is started from them...I except those parents who genuinely don't care about their kids(even then try to respect the title of "mother", "father"). 

people who don't value you are not worthy of having you, people who value you are worth to be valued.

put yourself first, people come next!...we have to try valuing ourselves, then blame others.... try to embrace yourself.#goodvibesonly

                                                                        

                                                                                                                    -mystery girl


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