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THE FEAR

 Fear....a feeling which stops us from doing the things that we want to do. There are so many people who want to do something their life but they can't. Fear is one of the reason I guess.


Hmm....there are so many things I am afraid of.one of that is stage fear-stage fright. dancing on stage and talking on stage is quite different. though I had given speeches, seminars. still am afraid of stage and also some people, some insects do scare me. 

I think there are different types of fears....some are with us from starting(i mean since birth), some start after knowing about the thing, some start with respect, some with responsibility and the last one comes with overthinking.

I repeat.. doing something we like without being afraid needs lots of motivation, dare and support...it's not simple as I said. as I mentioned in starting of the post...many people can't do with lack of these things.....though it may be the thing u like most you still feel demotivated some times. really lucky are those people who have people beside them who always support them, motivates them. 

somethings in life are worth daring, no fear will stop you at that moment....but the toughest task is being motivated all the time.

 it's also okay if you have no one to support you. don't wait for anyone to help you, do it yourself, trust yourself, keep motivating yourself.........................keep fighting


                                                                                                                            -mystery girl
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